Here's the thing about equality everyone wants it but no ones to actually do it.* Here's why if everyone was equal there would be no one to discriminate against, no one to aim animosity toward, and no one to blame the problems of society on. It would also mean that we'd have to teach our kids that the color of a persons skin is not indicative of the persons behavior and that they should instead judge them by the content of their character. As well as education them on the fact that they are free to date whom ever they wish** without remarks like 'just don't bring home a black boy/girl' or 'couldn't you find a nice girl/boy you're on race'. Because they in turn internalize those statements and make similar statement like 'you're cute for a black guy'. which just perpetuates inequality.
*Based solely on American society.
**when they reach an appropriate age.